I have to get something off of my chest. Something has bugged me about Little People, Big World ever since its premiere that I can't get out of my mind. While it may seem minor to some, it just makes me feel uncomfortable when I see the show. I'm not talking about the Roloffs themselves. On the contrary, I think what Matt and Amy do on a daily basis should be commended and be an example to all of us that we can do anything if we put our minds to it.
I have been dismayed by the mess in the home. I understood before the redo that they may not have had enough room but even in the new shows the place is a mess. There is no reason for all the clothes to be all over the floor in the living room, dining room, etc. With four kids they could be assigned a room to keep it picked up.
To that I reply with a hearty 'Amen'!I understand they have four teenage children (3 teenagers and one tween, to be exact), and I know that both Matt and Amy are constantly working, but do you think they could clean up the house a little bit? I mean, there's reality TV and then there is too much reality TV. Sometimes I just feel the urge to hop on a flight to Oregon so I can stop by their house to clean it up.
Basically, I see it as a discipline issue. If you have watched the show you can tell that the kids don't seem to respect their mother and father, especially the twins Zach and Jeremy. Of course, they're the ones that make the most mess. Did you ever see their room? Good Lord! it's like a garbage bomb exploded in it. Teenagers or not, I don't know how they could live like that.
I also believe it has something to do with space relations. The Roloff farm is HUGE, so there's a lot of space to store their stuff on the farm itself. When it comes to the house, though, they don't really know what to do with the space they have available. They tried to clean-up their act (pun intended) last season when they brought someone in to help reorganize their pantry and laundry area. However, it never seemed to work out for them. They need to realize that, even after the renovations they made, their house is only a few thousand square feet.
With the twins reaching college age, and the whole family traveling the country in an RV next season, we may see a change at the Roloff home. Hopefully that will mean we concentrate on what's going on with Matt, Amy, and the kids rather than going "For the love of Pete, clean up after yourselves!"















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7-26-2007 @ 10:53AM
Steve said...
while I could not live in the mess in the Roloff house, I don't think their situation is that special. I knew plenty of people growing that had 2 working parents that had a messy house. We are just seeing a real American household, unlike Gene Simmons and The Osbournes who probably have a whole crew of maids on standby.
The Roloffs have too much going on in their lives to worry about cleaning. To each their own.
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7-26-2007 @ 10:56AM
Ginger said...
I love that their house looks like a normal busy home, not some perfect TV home!
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7-26-2007 @ 11:13AM
DMD said...
Indeed discipline and respect seem to be in short order, ( pardon the pun..) in this house.
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7-26-2007 @ 11:48AM
summer said...
At least it's real. It kind of bothers me, but then I remember all the reality shows out there that take place in homes that have obviously been made 'presentable.' Kudos to them for showing who they really are.
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7-26-2007 @ 11:51AM
dtt said...
Question 1 to the author:
Are you a parent & do you have lots of kids?
Revelation 1 to the author:
Many households with kids and working parents look like this on a regular basis...Maybe not when they are expecting company or during or after the weekend cleaning, etc....but without a dedicated maid service...it happens. No matter how we try to stop it from happening....it happens.
For a short demo...I could send my 4 kids over to your house for a couple of weeks :)
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7-26-2007 @ 12:51PM
Nova said...
seriously, stop being a neat freak. It is not a discipline issue, it is a personality issue. I mean their priority might very well be on other and in my opinion more important issues than picking up some clothes off the floor. They spend so much more time with their kids than I think most parents do and I think that is commendable.
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7-26-2007 @ 12:07PM
Jason said...
Being working parents is no excuse. I grew up in a much smaller house with 7 kids and our house never looked like that. My parents simply wouldn't stand for it.
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7-26-2007 @ 2:09PM
Rich Keller said...
dtt, to answer your question I actually have four kids of my own. There may be some toys here and there, but it never, ever looks that messy!
As to the commentor who says that it's none of our business, I absolutely disagree. They have decided to film their daily lives and show it to millions of viewers. When that happens it does become our business.
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7-26-2007 @ 12:54PM
David said...
I don't mind the mess, it's not that bad with 4 kids.
What drives me nutty is the "piss off" the kids can say to their parents. They go to Bible Shcool and they still are allowed to swaer at their parents?! What the hell is up with that?
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7-26-2007 @ 1:51PM
Cheri said...
I have always cringed when they show the house. I have teenagers, and a full time job. MY HOUSE DOES NOT LOOK LIKE THAT. I can forgive some disarray, but the Roloff's house goes beyond just busy living. It's nasty. I wouldn't eat there.
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7-26-2007 @ 1:46PM
Joel Keller said...
Funny thing is, my big brother has just as many kids as the Roloffs (4). But whenever I go to his house, all the toys are put away and the place looks generally spotless. It's the neatest and cleanest house of any of the people I know who have kids.
Rich is a tidy guy, but I get the feeling most of the spotlessness has to do with his wife. She has just taught the kids (at least the older two) to pick up after themselves. It was probably hard to do, but it seemed to work out in the long run.
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7-26-2007 @ 1:56PM
dawn said...
I think there house looks lived in. I have 3 boys and with me working full time and there father working full time there would be no time left if all we did was pick up the house. The roloffs are doing a good job with the kids. The kids respect and love there parents
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8-15-2007 @ 1:17PM
Dave Mora said...
I agree it is a messy home. But saying is a busy house and they have 4 kids is not an excuse. I grew up in a house of 7 kids and 2 adults.
If our room was a mess were had it comming.
Hey if you going out their Richard let me know I will join you on the flight and help you with this mission.
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7-26-2007 @ 9:14PM
erin said...
You have got to be kidding me!! The simple fact is, some folks are messy and some aren't. It's not a reflection of their character, or their personality, or their ability to enforce discipline.
It's just a simple matter of priorities. Of all the things in the world to use as a basis to judge people...the idea of whether or not they are "neat" just baffles me. I say: who cares? Nobody is asking you to live in their house and how they choose to keep it is simply not your business. This is, after all, "reality" TV. They shouldn't have to clean up so as not to offend your delicate sensibilities. What would be real about that?
The Roloffs are kind, caring, open minded, generous people. We should be applauding them for the values they do have and not chiding them for something that, in the end, is of no real importance whatsoever.
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7-28-2007 @ 9:25PM
marie good said...
I really, really love the show,but I'm a little bit mix up w/ the TV schedule. I thought it was on Monday night on TlC and when I turn on the TV TLC no Little People/Big World-What's up?? Yes I must say the house is a little bit a mess. Amy needs to setup a schedule for the kids to help her do the house work and clean there room!!. Otherwise I think there a very beautiful family !!
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7-31-2007 @ 11:46PM
Grace said...
I think Zach is moody and extremely disrespectful to his parents. He's my least favorite of the kids. I just don't like his personality. Matt and Amy are too easy on all their kids especially in the areas of respect, accountability and responsibility. Just because they're a "busy" family doesn't excuse them living in that incredibly messy house.
I live in a household of 5 kids and we all have chores to do or we get in trouble. And, I have parents who are as involved in our lives as Matt and Amy are in their kids' lives. They're just slobs and I won't make excuses for them. The kids are all able-bodied and should be cleaning up after themselves. These kids have no structure in their lives and that's their parent's fault. They have a lot of down time to play and horse around. They should use some of that time to clean up their messes!
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8-01-2007 @ 11:18AM
Julie said...
I would have to agree....I grew up in a much smaller home with 4 kids and our house never looked like that. I love the Roloffs, but I would love to just see the kitchen counter cleared off!!!
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8-01-2007 @ 11:52AM
deeg said...
when I watch the show I am more interested in how they deal with real life "problems" and not how they keep their house clean, organized and meeting the expectations of "perfect domestics." It's reality...and if it is their reality so be it. I would love to see more families deal with the daily struggles on the television. The days of "ozzie and harriet" are over....face it! And if those of you who organize and clean in perpetuity, please come this way. Hoorays to the Roloffs--be it less than pefect there's no place like "whatever kind of home yhou live in."
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8-02-2007 @ 12:09AM
Yolanda said...
What I love about the Roloffs are that they are SO NORMAL!--messy house et al. After watching a few shows, I forgot that Matt, Amy and Zach are "Little People". I saw them as regular Americans struggling with daily problems & challenges just like everybody else. When they stopped airing the shows on Mondays, I was upset-I thought that the series had been cancelled. I am very happy that there is a new season in October.
Matt-keep that wheeling-dealing mind of yours going!!! I admire you and how you constantly think of ways to make ROLOFF Farms profitable. My hat off to you sir!
Amy rules with a loving but firm hand. I love Amy so much that I am trying to use her common sense in guiding my 18 & 20 year old girls.
I so love the children-all of them. I am a big fan!
Thank you Roloffs for coming back in October. I am looking forward to your show...
yc
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8-05-2007 @ 8:20PM
Laurel said...
Are you kidding me?!?! We say your house is great just the way it is!!! Our house is that way with only one child.... so a house with 6 people.... ha! And besides that's what makes the show so cool, you don't see Amy running mad, freaking out about the mess, (it is cute when Matt starts wacking stuff around with his cane though) but anyway who cares... they have their own show and YOU don't so just sit back and enjoy this wonderful family and donate some $$ to CODA!! The ROLOFFS ROCK!! Our family loves you guys... don't ever change!! Much Love The Spragues xoxoxox
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